Tonight's plan
Who's on this date?
Every Date Night Connection kit is made for husbands and wives. We'll use your names all night.
What a night
Here's your date card, made from tonight.
Press and hold the card to save it. Then post it, or send it to a married couple you love.
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A date night for married couples
The FUN rules
Focus on fun & flirtingLeave finances, chores, deadlines, and to-dos for another day.
Unplug and uniteGive each other your undivided attention. Turn off notifications on every phone except the one running this kit, and use devices only to capture photos and share your night together.
No negativity allowedTonight is a conflict-free, complaint-free, nice zone. If a rule gets broken, gently remind each other you're here to have fun.
Plan your night
Tonight you'll dream big about your future together. Check these off ahead of time.
Break ground
Every great build starts with a groundbreaking. Yours starts with a kiss.
Groundbreaking ceremony: the two of you, one kiss.
A seven-second kiss to break ground on your dreams.
Then head to dinner. The building begins at the table.
Our dream blueprint
After you order, build your dream house one room at a time. Each room is a part of your life together. Tap a room, dream about it out loud, then build it.
No right or wrong answers. Dream big, and listen well.
Dream or nightmare?
Each of you secretly votes on the scenario. Then see if you match!
Lay the first brick
Every dream is built one brick at a time. Tonight, pick one dream from your blueprint and plan how you'll start it.
- Choose one dream from your blueprint.
- Plan your first steps: what will you do first to make it happen?
- Set a start date for your first step.
Keep them small and doable. One step is enough to start.
"Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and he will establish your plans."PROVERBS 16:3 (NIV)
Before you leave the table, hold hands and pray together. Ask God to guide this dream and every dream on your blueprint.
Pass the fun along
Before you leave, share this date night with another married couple and dare them to dream big.
Spot another married couple on a date? Let them scan this code.
https://www.frontlinemarriage.com/dream-builder-date-night
Post about your night and invite everyone to plan one of their own.
Instagram doesn't allow links in captions to be tapped, so add the link to your bio or story, or just share the photo and hashtags.
The drive home
Keep dreaming on the way home. Take turns with these.
- Which room on our blueprint are you most excited about?
- What's one dream you didn't say tonight, but want to someday?
- What's one small way I can help your dreams come true?
Let the passenger pick the music, so the driver keeps eyes on the road.
Tip: take a screenshot of your plan and set it as your phone's lock screen for a week.
