Tonight's plan
Who's on this date?
Every Date Night Connection kit is made for husbands and wives. We'll use your names all night.
What a night
Here's your date card, made from tonight.
Press and hold the card to save it. Then post it, or send it to a married couple you love.
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A date night for married couples
The FUN rules
Focus on fun & flirtingLeave finances, chores, deadlines, and to-dos for another day.
Unplug and uniteGive each other your undivided attention. Turn off notifications on every phone except the one running this kit, and use devices only to capture photos and share your night together.
No negativity allowedTonight is a conflict-free, complaint-free, nice zone. If a rule gets broken, gently remind each other you're here to have fun.
Mission prep
Every great mission starts with planning. Check these off ahead of time.
Name your agent
Every agent needs a codename, and tonight your spouse gets to create yours. Pick a word that describes them, an animal, and their birth month. Each month gives them a secret color.
Agents, your mission tonight: slip away together, outsmart each other over dinner, and come home more connected than when you left. Trust no one… except each other.
Every great partnership starts with a seven-second kiss.
Then head to your rendezvous point.
Go undercover
Before you order, each agent secretly gets three missions to pull off during dinner, without the other catching on.
Complete your missions before dessert. If your spouse catches you in the act and calls it out, that mission is blown!
Crack the code
Take turns writing a secret note for each other. The app scrambles it into code, and your spouse has to crack it.
The interrogation
Two truths and a lie. The agent in the hot seat says three things about the topic. One is a lie. Can the other agent find it?
Keep your poker face! Play as many rounds as you like.
Mission debrief
Order dessert. Time to confess! Reveal your secret missions and tap the ones you pulled off without getting caught.
Recruit another couple
Before you leave, pass this mission to another married couple and dare them to go Top Secret.
Spot another married couple on a date? Let them scan this code.
https://www.frontlinemarriage.com/top-secret-date-night
Post about your night and invite everyone to plan one of their own.
Instagram doesn't allow links in captions to be tapped, so add the link to your bio or story, or just share the photo and hashtags.
The getaway
Every mission ends with a smooth getaway. Cue the spy soundtrack and debrief on the drive home.
- What was your favorite moment of tonight's mission?
- Which of my secret missions did you almost catch?
- What's one mission you'd love for us to take on together this year?
Let the passenger pick the music, so the driver keeps eyes on the road.
Agents, your last assignment: end the night with a kiss at the front door. Mission accomplished.
